Love And It's Types...
When the word 'love' comes in, automatically our perceptions change into fantasy-related feelings. Feelings of divinity, passion, unconditional, genuine, generosity, holy, spiritual, self-less, boundless, heavenly & what not. All the positive feeling & vibe gets associated with it. We feel Love is the ultimate part of our lives & those who have attained it, attains everything in the world.
Love is seems to be care warmth & affection of the lover, can be anyone like parents, siblings, friends,partner in life etc. Its the most pious feeling anyone could ever have for anyone else. A feeling which completes a man, a feeling lifts up a person to the level of Godliness, to fly away in fresh air of the sky.
But does it just ends up being the kindest version of feelings? Does it just only productive & constructive, helping people to grow beautifully & flourish? Does it only makes the other one happy & perfect? Does it really consists & persists charm in it?
Are the questions that always arise in my brain & always it answers 'no', a big NO. Love is not just a mender or a support to help a climber to grew. Love is not only a saintly devout-ous feeling making a common creature reach to the level where it competes with God for the supremacy. Love is just not perfect.
Leaving this apart, Love is somewhat which also really provides one with suffocation, distress, complexities, obsession, making a person suffer from psychological distress. It also turns people into maniac & a psychological-jealous person, a destructor, a ridiculous & irrational self-being.
Imagine the person who is in love with you suddenly turns into the most insecure,obsessed being, do you really be able to grow properly & independently? You already know the answer that 'No'. Love also acts as a restraining-instrument from a healthy development growth & nourishment, suffocating you making you weak mentally, emotionally & physically as well.
Inspite of just framing the fantasy related image of the so called 'love', it is also extremely neccessary to frame up & portray the darker & gloomy side of it as well.
-Fauzia Afreen
Love is seems to be care warmth & affection of the lover, can be anyone like parents, siblings, friends,partner in life etc. Its the most pious feeling anyone could ever have for anyone else. A feeling which completes a man, a feeling lifts up a person to the level of Godliness, to fly away in fresh air of the sky.
But does it just ends up being the kindest version of feelings? Does it just only productive & constructive, helping people to grow beautifully & flourish? Does it only makes the other one happy & perfect? Does it really consists & persists charm in it?
Are the questions that always arise in my brain & always it answers 'no', a big NO. Love is not just a mender or a support to help a climber to grew. Love is not only a saintly devout-ous feeling making a common creature reach to the level where it competes with God for the supremacy. Love is just not perfect.
Leaving this apart, Love is somewhat which also really provides one with suffocation, distress, complexities, obsession, making a person suffer from psychological distress. It also turns people into maniac & a psychological-jealous person, a destructor, a ridiculous & irrational self-being.
Imagine the person who is in love with you suddenly turns into the most insecure,obsessed being, do you really be able to grow properly & independently? You already know the answer that 'No'. Love also acts as a restraining-instrument from a healthy development growth & nourishment, suffocating you making you weak mentally, emotionally & physically as well.
Inspite of just framing the fantasy related image of the so called 'love', it is also extremely neccessary to frame up & portray the darker & gloomy side of it as well.
-Fauzia Afreen
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