Harsh truths one prefer to ignore

Everyone has some or the other harsh truths to accept in life.Yes!It differs with people & situations they goes through.For some,accepting their mistakes blemishes selfishness & wrong deeds are the harsh truths but for some it may be the repentance they suffer from the losses & rejections of which someone dear to them have illustrated or adviced,who no longer exists.
But for me there are many harsh truths I really prefer to ignore.The biggest one is someday or the other our loved ones will leave us forever.Every beautiful thing that have started has a very scary & painful end.Someday after an eternal sleep I will be replaced by others,people saying that they can't think their life without me will remain living their lives without me also.We never accepts that we judge others by their actions but our own-selves by intentions.We set different paradigms for our-selves & our loved loves than that from others.
Adding to the topic,I don't really want to accept that life is too short to complete all desires dreams goals & ambitions of one.That name & fame is not everyone's cup of tea.That complaining is mere waste of time just for self-satisfaction & bluff as nothing really gets changed.We all never accepts that risks are the ladders to success & that life gives you only a few chance for a better change.
Do we really accept the bitterest truth that we humans are the prime spoiler of the world,leading to a very dangerous conditions& in this we all are responsible. Always thinking of start from other's behalf.Isn't it the crudest truth that we humans take everything for granted,it may be either living or non living,own-relations or those who are deprived of  basic rights & facilities(black negros,lower class& poor),animals or nature.Isn't it the fact that we tends to ignore that in spite of independence,we are not liberal.That crying hoarsely for the banner of feminism & equal rights,there will always be differences for a beautiful & healthy society.As equality may lead to the state of barbarity that was years before completely destroying the norms & structure of society.Complete equality is not really possible, yes ofcourse it may be in education & jobs.
-Fauzia Afreen