Constant interference of the disgusting society

We all suffers from a parochial society, having a very keen & conservative point of view in every aspects & a worst habit of being so judgemental,ever since we have gained mental-maturity.
They are the ones having more interests in our private matters,much more than ours,continuously peeping & poking into.The no less than google having hoard of knowledge about us,varying from what we had in our lunch today to at what time in the evening/night we entered into home from work.From where we persuade or still persuading we career to what salary one gets & on whose influence. Even whom we met at a distance of 1km range,5 days ago & the biodata of guests arriving our home, s known by them.Litrally ending up forcing me to think that are all works & duties have evacuated from their lives that they are so free for peeping into other's lives?
They are such a creeps,making life hell & influencing major part of people to think 1000times before taking any actions in their life for betterment as the fear "samaj kya kahega?"persists in the brain.Decisions inviting happiness or simplifing life, that should be easily taken without any analysation either are never taken or delayed till the end because this ambigiois wretched society.
As writing this,one name that is continuously hammering in my mind is of one of my aunt stays nearby,very much vigilant & interested in with whom I converse & in what manner when my parents doesn't really cares.Typically commenting on every matter without realising about his son's actions(how many unknown calls,mysterious affairs,late-night activity in mobile). Having least concerns about his deeds.
Lastly,do we ever realise that just complaining about society's deeds is really justifiable?As we,citizens,form a society.It is just the reflection/portrayal of our keen thoughts.In spite of complaining,if we stop peeping into matters of others,taking interests in other's suffering tenure & gossiping bad about others & helping whole-heartedly without any expectations of return in the bad times like good neighbours,we would seriously one day or the other will achieve victory in removing the tag"log kya kahengey?".Let's correct ownself
-Fauzia Afreen