Self Dependence

A very substantial thing for every human. It helps to lead a life with dignity & head-high by increasing self-value/self-esteem. "Depend on yourself before depending on others, bcoz others can let you down, but you can pick yourself up" is what we learned since our childhood. In a smaller aspect, we were made exercised daily by eg:- tying our own shoe-lace, packing our own school-bags, combing our hair by own etc. As we grew up, its aspect also amplified eg:- building our career by own, making own money, fulfilling needs & desires by own etc.
Self dependence is always accompanied with freedom,i.e freedom from taking permissions, freedom to pay our own bills, freedom to enhance & improve hobbies & self-skills, freedom to determine our own schedules,values & priorities, freedom from manipulations, freedom to choice, freedom for a better & sustainable lifestyle, freedom from being a victim blah blah...
It not only gives one freedom but also boosts our confidence level, improves our decision making power & moreover makes us competent to help others which provides eternal happiness which is incomparable.
Self-dependence is vital for girls/women. It acts as a backbone for her concrete & appropriate upliftment. According to Prachi Salve, the crime rate against women has gone up from 41.7% to 53.9% btw 2012-15 in which 33.3% is of home violence & 12% is physical abuse which is really an alarming situation. The reasons for this are many but vital is 'finance-related issues'. Self-dependence helps to solve the problem. It makes women financially & emotionally strong & help her to put her decisions. It boosts her confidence & provides her with respect in the home as well as in society. It solves her many materialistic needs & makes her self-efficient. 
I here, quote Bob Marley, "Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery, None but ourselves can free our minds".
The key to self-dependence is 'good education'. Provide & promote education for her, provide her liberty, support her, promote her talents, make her self-dependent, as she is the source of enlightenment for your future generations.
-Fauzia Afreen